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  • Peace in Chaos 

    When peace like a river attended my way

    When sorrows like sea billows roll

    Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say

    It is well, it is well, with my soul

    It is well (it is well)

    With my soul (with my soul)

    It is well, it is well with my soul (writers:  Horatio G. Spafford / Keith Getty / Philip Paul Bliss).

    Peace is more than quietness or the absence of trouble.   It is a deep, inner calm that remains even when everything around you is shaking.   ‘You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”

    — Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)

    Peace in chaos isn’t the absence of noise, it’s the presence of God in the middle of it.
    When life spins out of control, when storms rage, when nothing seems steady; true peace anchors your soul, not your surroundings. 

    Peace isn’t found by escaping the storm, but by trusting the One who speaks to it. Jesus said, “Peace, be still,” and even the winds obeyed Him (Mark 4:39). That same authority lives in you when your heart is fixed on Him.

    When chaos comes:

    • Pause and breathe. Remember Who holds your breath.
    • Pray instead of panic. Prayer shifts your focus from fear to faith.
    • Praise in the storm. Worship silences worry.

    ✨ Peace is not the end of the storm — it’s the calm within it.

    Peace in chaos is finding a sense of calm, stillness, and inner balance despite external disorder, rather than waiting for the chaos to disappear. It is about accepting what cannot be controlled and developing resilience through practices like meditation, self-awareness, and pulling on your source of strength (Christ) which provides grounding to navigate life’s challenges with a steady heart. 

    Key principles of finding peace in chaos 

    • Inner stillness, not external quiet: True peace comes from training the mind to be calm and observant, not from a lack of external problems. It’s about pausing before reacting and seeing situations clearly, without letting emotions dictate your response. It requires you not leaning to your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
    • Acceptance of what you can’t control: This involves the acknowledgment of the Word of God which supersedes what you see. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Trusting in the unwavering love of God provides an anchor for the soul. 
    • Mindfulness and being present: Grounding yourself in the present moment through techniques like meditating on the Word of God.  May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer (Psalm 19:14). This calms your mind and reduce stress, even when external circumstances are chaotic. It also encourages one to be present in the situation. The process is a necessary part of growth and development. In the process is where we experience God for ourselves not what we heard but it becomes what we know (Job 42:5).
    • Resilience and trust: Building resilience allows you to face life’s storms with patience and trust.  It is the quality of being able to adapt to stressful life challenges and bouncing back from hardships. You learn to navigate challenges step-by-step instead of panicking, which ultimately makes you feel stronger. You build one brick at a time. Psalm 28:7 says, The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song, I give thanks to him.
    • Clarity and self-discovery: Embracing chaos can force you to clarify what is most important to you. Deuteronomy 4:29 – ‘But from there you will seek the Lord your God and you will find him, if you search after him with all your heart and with all your soul.’ This process can lead to greater self-discovery and realization about your priorities in life. As one takes the journey of discovering who he/she is, seeking God becomes the main goal. It is only in Christ that we can discover who we are and what we are called for. The scripture says in Ephesians 2:10 that we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. 

    As we navigate this journey of life, we must bear in mind that in the midst of chaos, we can experience God’s peace. John 14:27 tells us, ‘Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.’ Peace can only be found in Christ Jesus. If you don’t know Him today, will you give Him a chance in your life? He will help you to discover who you are, teach you resilience and trust, helps you to be become mindful, self aware and present. He will help you to be still and know that He’s God. When you know Him, He will help you to understand that He’s Sovereign and that He will take care of you. It is only in Christ that one can experience the unshakable sense of hope and inner peace.

    Great Grace.

  • Distraction

    Scripture: Luke 10:

    38-40 As they continued their travel, Jesus entered a village. A woman by the name of Martha welcomed him and made him feel quite at home. She had a sister, Mary, who sat before the Master, hanging on every word he said. But Martha was pulled away by all she had to do in the kitchen. Later, she stepped in, interrupting them. “Master, don’t you care that my sister has abandoned the kitchen to me? Tell her to lend me a hand.” 41-42 The Master said, “Martha, dear Martha, you’re fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing. One thing only is essential, and Mary has chosen it—it’s the main course, and won’t be taken from her.

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    Distraction is having your attention being pulled from what is important. It is when your mind or focus is divided, making it hard to concentrate on the main thing. Rebecca Pidgeon said, ‘we live in such an age of chatter and distraction. Everything is a challenge for the ears and eyes.’

    Martha was distracted by her duties, as important as they were. However, Mary chose to focus on Jesus. Mary realized that whatever Jesus was saying had to be more important than hospitality though same was necessary and needed. Distraction is one of the enemy’s quietest and most effective tools used against believers. It doesn’t always come dressed as ‘sin’ or ‘rebellion,’ it often comes disguised as something ‘good’, something ‘urgent,’ and or ‘interesting.’ The goal remains the same, which is to pull our hearts away from what truly matters, God’s presence and purpose. Proverbs 4:25 says, ‘Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze directly before you.

    In today’s fast-moving world, distraction surrounds us, constant notifications, endless to-do lists, attention paid to the devices, and the pull of comparison. Even within the ‘church’ we can become so busy doing things for God that we forget to spend time with God, which causes a deficiency in our relationship with Him. But Scripture reminds us, “Let your eyes look straight ahead.” God calls us to focus on Him, on His Word, and on the path He has laid before us. Just as Peter began to sink when he looked away from Jesus and focused on the wind and waves (Matthew 14:30), we, too, lose spiritual footing when we let our attention drift from Christ.

    Its important to understand that what captures your attention will eventually capture your heart. As you go through out this week, be determined and intentional to overcome distraction: I recommend the following:

    1. Ask God for focus. God will give wisdom and strength to resist the pull of lesser things.
    2. Start your day centered on God. Before checking your phone or plans, check in with the Lord.
    3. Create quiet moments. Silence is not empty, its space where God speaks.
    4. Set boundaries. Guard your time and your thoughts with intention.

    Like Martha, God sees your hustle. He’s very much aware of the cares you carry every day. He knows that what you are doing is important. However, He wants you to take the approach of Mary. She realized that only one thing was important and that was to be at the feet of Jesus. Connecting to Him was important, being in His presence was unmatched. She paid keen attention to what He had to say. Will you today, lay aside the burdens you carry and focus on Jesus? It is still the most important thing, today. 2 Peter 5:7 says ‘Cast your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.’

    More Grace.

  • Love your Neighbor

    ‘We cannot truly love God if we fail to love our neighbor.” – Mother Teresa

    We live in a world that caters to itself, everyone does what seems right to him/her. Love of neighbor seems to be the last thing that’s on the minds of people. We don’t want to invest in family, yet we want the favor, the camaraderie, the companionship, partnership and so much more that comes over time to a family that is dedicated to doing the necessary work. We complain about our communities that they are vile, the youths are hopeless, yet we refuse to pour in the love, patience and kindness needed to help steer the youth on the right path. We want a Godly society yet we refuse to accept Christ as our Lord and Savior. God is Love.  Jesus taught that loving your neighbor is the second greatest commandment (Mark 12:31).

    It goes beyond simply being polite—it is a reflection of God’s love at work in us. When Jesus gave this command, He placed it right after the call to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30–31). That means our love for people is a direct overflow of our love for Him.

    To “love your neighbor as yourself” means showing the same care, patience, forgiveness, and compassion that we desire for ourselves. It could be as simple as a kind word, a listening ear, or a helping hand. Even small acts of love carry eternal weight when done in Christ’s name. Loving your neighbor is not a one-time act, but a lifestyle of showing God’s love daily—both to those who are easy to love and those who may be difficult.

    Luke 10: 37 shows us the example of the ‘Good Samaritan’ which highlights that our neighbor is not just those close to us but anyone in need, regardless of race, culture, or background.

    A few examples of what loving your neighbor  looks like :

    1. Compassion: Sharing in others’ burdens (Galatians 6:2).
    2. Forgiveness: Extending grace when wronged (Colossians 3:13).
    3. Generosity: Meeting physical and emotional needs (James 2:15–16).
    4. Kindness in Speech: Encouraging and building up, not tearing down (Ephesians 4:29).
    5. Service: Putting others’ interests before our own (Philippians 2:3–4).

    Practical examples:

    1. Checking in on someone who feels lonely.
    2. Sharing resources with those in need.
    3. Offering forgiveness instead of holding grudges.
    4. Volunteering time and skills to help others.
    5. Simply listening with empathy when someone needs to talk.

    We should not be separated because of the color of our skin, the language we speak, the last name we carry, the place we live, the political stance we take or even the position we hold. We were all created by the same God and called to oneness with Him. My encouragement for this week, is for us to stop and see someone else. Look through the lens of love. May our hearts be tethered to Christ, it is in that love is made perfect. The world is depending on us to show up with compassion, grace, and mercy.

    Action for this week: Who is a “neighbor” in your life right now that God may be prompting you to love by doing?

    More Grace!

  • Lessons from A Reindeer

    Reindeer

    Reindeers are one of the most fascinating animals to me. They are called ‘caribou’ in North America. They live in some of the harshest environments on earth. They are a symbol of endurance, community, and quiet strength. Each year, the reindeer journeys across thousands of miles, braving icy winds and endless nights. Yet it never travels alone. It moves with its herd, pressing forward as a team. They shed and regrow their antlers every year. For the males, its after mating season, while females keep theirs during winter. Antlers begin as soft, fuzzy structures covered in a layer of skin called “velvet,” which contains blood vessels and nutrients for rapid growth. As the antlers reach their full size, the blood supply to the velvet decreases, and the antlers harden. The reindeer then rubs off the dried velvet against rocks or trees, revealing the solid, hard antler underneath. This is a bloody yet necessary process. James 1:2 encourages believers to find joy in trials and hardships. This is in no means because the trials are pleasant however like the reindeer, they are necessary. Challenges, sometimes bloody, but at the end, produces maturity, endurance, and steadfastness.

    As a people, we experience varying seasons in life. Sometimes we are on the mountain and other times we are in the valley but i’m reminded in Hebrews 13:5b-6 that God will never leave us nor forsake us. We can confidently say that He is our Helper. We all started as ‘babes’ in Christ which desires the sincere milk of the word to ensure that we are growing steadily in the Word of God. As we grow up (mature), the following are lessons we can learn from the reindeer: We experience seasons of scarcity and struggle. Life sometimes feel like we too are digging through snow to find the basic necessities of life. Like the reindeer with sharp senses, warm coats, and the determination to go; we are given the wisdom, knowledge and understanding to navigate our own journey. We are guided by the Word of God and the eye of the Lord (Psalm 119:105, Psalm 32:8).

    Here are a few lessons from the reindeer:

    1. Adaptability – We are kept steady in changing times (Philippians 4:11-13)
    2. Community – Iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17)
    3. Perseverance – Carries us toward God’s promises (Romans 5:3-4)
    4. Sensitivity – We are guided by the Holy Spirit when the path seems dim (John 16:13)
    5. Leadership – Within the herd leadership shifts depending on conditions. (Numbers 27:15-23; Deuteronomy 3:28; Joshua 1:1-18)
    6. Resourcefulness – Reindeers dig in the snow to find food. Believers are given all they need for life and Godliness (2 Peter 1:3)

    In concluding, the life of the reindeer shows truth and authenticity. God has provided all we need to walk in His truth, to endure, grow and to be ready for His return. You might be struggling with the changes in your life. It might be devastating, crippling and stressful. However, be reminded that you are not alone, God is with you. All you need to succeed are already provided. Could it be that you are looking in the wrong direction? Are you trying to weather the storm alone? Remember God is only a call away. Your struggles, pain, and or distress are seasonal , they are like nutrients to your growth and development. They are but to make you stronger and i implore you not to pray away your process of refinement but to endure because your character is being formed as your hope in Christ is renewed.

    More Grace.

  • Do not Worry

    Worry is a mental and emotional state where one feels uneasy, anxious, or concerned about something that might happen in the future. Its often a repetitive, uncontrollable thought process focused on potential problems or negative outcomes. Worry is a powerful force that is able to steal your joy and robs you of your peace and having total reliance on the Holy Spirit. Worry magnifies the issue and makes it worse than it actually is. Many are committed to worry and pushes it into the future when there is not enough to focus on in the present.

    Philippians 4:6-7 tells us to Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7. and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Worry indicates a lack of trust in God’s wisdom, sovereignty, or power.

    As people, we tend to become anxious or worry about what we don’t have grace for yet. The scripture tells us that new mercy we see everyday, which means in every new day, fresh mercy is provided for us to navigate the worries of that time and space. Worry fosters or breeds fear of the unknown while takes away from complete reliance on God, the Protector, Provider, Deliverer and Promise Keeper. It negates the essence of the Word as it points to not just now but for tomorrow. Its a deadly disease.

    Common features of worry:

    1. Its most time about the future
    2. Feels like it might help you prepare, but it actually just drains energy
    3. Hard to stop, once it starts
    4. Can be very mild-like concern but quickly develops into a full blown panic attack
    5. It can be very frequent, excessive and hard to control

    Strategies to deal with worry:

    1. Pray about everything with gratitude
    2. Be mindful of what you are worrying about (ask yourself if you can solve this problem)
    3. Practice to meditate on what the scriptures say about the issue you think you might have. Believe it.
    4. Challenge your thoughts (its good to talk back to yourself)
    5. Write down your thoughts and list possible actions that can be taken
    6. Make a list of the things you can control and the ones you cant
    7. Act if you can but in all things rely on the Holy Spirit to guide you

    Uncontrolled worry can lead to severe depression. Jesus said to the disciples in Luke 12:22-31

    22 Then Jesus said to his disciples: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. 23 For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. 24 Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! 25 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life[a]? 26 Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?

    27 “Consider how the wild flowers grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 28 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today, and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you—you of little faith! 29 And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. 30 For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. 31 But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well.

    More Grace!

  • Surprise!

    The truth is, we are living in a world that no longer believes that all things are possible…. (Mark 9:23) thus we are often times surprised when something out of the ordinary happens for us. We are in the era where we depend on our own capabilities, intelligence, strength, creativity and wherewithal. We’re often surprised because reality doesn’t always match our expectations. Surprise is a psychological and emotional response to something unexpected—something that violates our mental predictions about how things should go. As a people, we no longer expect the creator to take care of the created. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  (Jeremiah 29:11) 
     Believing in the Lord eliminates surprises because there is always the level of expectation that when our request is made, He hears and answers.

    We constantly predict what will happen next based on experience, knowledge, and context. When something breaks that pattern—positively or negatively—we’re surprised. Example: You expect your friend to be late (as usual), but they show up early. Surprise! Sometimes we are surprised negatively because what was requested didn’t show up in the expected package. This brings on a level of ingratitude because expectations were not met. The plan of God for each of our life is vast. We can’t even fathom it therefore having complete trust in God creates the space for God to blow our minds.

    We assume stability in a changing world.

    We tend to believe that things will stay as they are. But the world is dynamic, plans shift, seasons change. This contrast creates surprise. Example: You thought your job was secure, but there’s a sudden round of layoffs. Did it mean God did not hear your prayer? Not at all. Isaiah 55:8-9 tells us, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.” This reminds us that God’s plans may look surprising or even confusing from a human point of view. That job lay off was a surprise to you but there is a better one being prepared.

    Finally, God delights in reversing expectations. The Bible repeatedly shows God lifting the humble and bringing down the proud, turning things upside down. Surprise! Surprise!

    • 1 Samuel 2:7–8 (ESV) “The Lord makes poor and makes rich; he brings low and he exalts.”
    • Luke 1:52–53 (ESV) “He has brought down the mighty from their thrones and exalted those of humble estate.”

    My encouragement this week, is for us to yield to the plan of God. Be anxious for nothing. God always wants to do more than we can think or even imagine. Don’t allow the element of surprise to usher in doubt and or unbelief but rather, know that God in His Sovereignty will do what’s best for us, after all He loves us unconditionally.

    More Grace!

  • Self Sabotage

    This is the act of understanding yourself, often due to fear, low self esteem, perfectionism or unresolved inner conflict. CAN YOU RELATE? It is when someone deliberately or unconsciously hinders their own success, progress, or well-being through behaviours, thoughts, or actions that are counter productive.

    I was sitting and admiring my daughter sleep when it hits me like a ton of bricks (loudly and painstakingly) how i have been in my own way of success for many years. I have always been afraid of change and tend to people please. Therefore making a decision without the influence and buy-in of someone else was a challenge. Taking that leap of faith and believing that God will order my steps have been formidable. I yearn for something new different but most times when the opportunity presents itself, fear, ‘i can’t and so many emotions come flooding down until either i lose interest or the opportunity passes.

    Proverbs 21:25-26 tells us that the desire of a sluggard/lazy man kills him, for his hands refuse to labor. He covets greedily all day long But the righteous gives and does not spare. The scripture highlights the desire of a person not someone else, it was coming from within himself. Sometimes our desire for self can be so warped thus blocking God from doing what He promised. How do we Self Sabotage:

    1. Procrastination – delaying important tasks even when there is a deadline. We keep putting things off for tomorrow.
    2. Negative Self Talk – constantly telling ourselves that we are not good enough.
    3. Perfectionism – setting unrealistic goals, then quitting when they are not met.
    4. Avoidance – avoiding opportunities out of fear of failure or rejection.
    5. Substance abuse or unhealthy habits – coping with stress in destructive ways.
    6. Starting conflicts or pushing people away – when things are going good, you pull it apart before it collapses (all in the mind).

    Mark 7:20-23 talks about the evil found within a man that ultimately defiles him. CAN YOU IDENTIFY?

    Here are a few pointers of why we Self-Sabotage:

    1. Fear – i still struggle sometimes with what if i fail or even succeed. Can i maintain maintain the success?
    2. Low self worth – many people, even christians are affected by this. The scripture tells us that our identity is found in Jesus Christ (John 1:12; 2 Corinthians 5:17). We question, do i deserve it?
    3. Imposter Syndrome – will people find out i’m not the best at what i am doing?
    4. Not wanting to leave what is comfortable – we prefer to stay in dysfunction and experience pain than moving into something new and different.

    How do we overcome:

    1. Become Self-aware – pay attention to patterns and triggers.
    2. Challenge your negative beliefs. Put them against truth (the Word of God) and ask the question (where did this belief come from? Was it from a bad or triumphant experience?
    3. Set REAL goals – cheer for yourself at each stage.
    4. Do not compare yourself – Be kind to YOU.

    Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to seek the strength found in Christ. While Philippians 4:13 assures us that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.

    More grace!!

  • Beauty for Ashes

    Isaiah 61:3

    I have fought through many storms, walked through the valley of the shadow of death. I’ve cried many tears, walked alone for many years, experienced rejection from former spouses and family members. My heart has been broken into multiple pieces which led me to retreat and cower. My self esteem was non existent, my place of comfort was in the ashes. One thing for me,through all i was experiencing, was that Jesus loves me. That would show up in different ways at different times but that was all i had which was constant in my life. I kept going, because on the one hand i was broken but on the other, i believed, sometimes faintly, but held on the belief that one day God would come through and He sure did. He didn’t show up how i expected Him to, but how He knew i needed His intervention.

    In the above scripture, we are promised comfort and transformation and beauty for the ashes many of us called ‘home’ because over time it became our place of refuge/our safe place. The space that heard our cries, saw our trauma and kept our secrets. Back in the days, ashes were a symbol of grief, devastation, a state of brokenness, loss and mourning but God promised to exchange that for blessings (head-dress, turban, tiara or a diadem) which symbolizes beauty (joy, restoration, and something beautiful rising from the ugliness of the past).

    Life is a classroom meant for lessons to be taught and learnt. In as much as we would like to escape the teachable moments, we won’t be able to. However as we navigate our journey, picking up scars, experience moments of loss and heartache, feeling sometimes like we cry more than we rejoice. God remains faithful to His word to us. He will give us beauty for ashes. He will give us joy for our loss. I encourage you today, to trust the Word of God and believe that He will pull you out of the darkness into His marvelous light, if we let Him. Know that, the beauty lies not only in what we go through, but also in how we choose to walk through it. In our resilience, our willingness to transform, to heal, and to emerge as something stronger, wiser, and kinder than we were before. Always remember that you are loved by your creator. Learn the lessons and choose to walk in freedom.

    I must ask you this question. Do you wish to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Savior? Do you want to receive beauty for ashes? Pray this prayer with me, if your answer is yes.

    Dear Lord, I am aware that i am a sinner. I know that i cannot save myself. I use my free will to believe that Jesus died for me and was raised for me, in order to save me. Please forgive me, dear Lord of all my sins and help me to forsake all sinful ways from this day forward. Cleanse me in your precious blood and transform me by the renewing of my mind. Show yourself strong in my life for all those who know me to see. Lord, i want beauty for ashes.

    If you prayed this prayer in sincerity, you are now saved. Find a Bible believing church and begin your journey.

    More Grace!

  • Forgiveness

    Forgiveness is for us and not someone else. It releases us to walk in freedom. It blocks our pathway from experiencing God’s mercy and grace, ‘Forgive me as I forgive those who trespass against me’ (Matthew 6:14). Forgiveness is a fundamental need for all people. We seek it and sometimes refuse to give it. Forgiveness is about releasing the grip of pain, resentment, or anger that binds us to the past. Whether in personal relationships, communities, or within ourselves, the need for forgiveness arises from our shared imperfection: and we are hurt. Forgiveness is not always easy. It often takes time, courage, and inner work. But it is deeply necessary not just to heal wounds, but to live with open hearts.

    Unforgiveness was something i struggled with for a long while. I was attending church and even doing all the ‘churchy’ stuff like, singing on the Praise and Worship Team, teaching Sunday School, smiling and telling myself that i was operating in Love. It was not until one day in prayer, the Holy Spirit brought to my attention that i was operating in unforgiveness and instructed me to deal with it. I prayed about the situation and was even trying to justify why it was necessary for me to hold on to the offense. Eventually, through much tears, fasting and prayer, i was able to leave the incident at the feet of Jesus (1 Peter 5:7). Today, i am free.

    Making the decision to walk in forgiveness forces us to do it quickly (Colossians 3:13). It’s a daily choice that believers must make as prescribed in scriptures. It is one of the things that separates us from the world. Throughout the Scriptures, God continues to call us back to him. He tells us to repent from our evil ways and embrace righteousness. His forgiveness is not dependent on what we can do or have done. God is a merciful God whose forgiveness is an outpouring of His love. He doesn’t forgive us reluctantly – He does so abundantly and with joy.

    I encourage you today, to forgive those who have wronged you, extend the grace of God which you freely received to someone else who is deemed unworthy. Its not an occasional act but each day through difficult circumstances, as believers we choose to give it to God and remove our emotions from the matter. Its difficult but doable. It didn’t matter the color of your skin or where you hail from , we must all forgive and move steadily in love.

  • The Power of Self Discipline

    Discipline is the ability to control your impulses, stay focused on your goals (whether long term or short term). It allows for one to make choices in alignment with his values even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient. Power is the ability to influence , direct or control outcomes. It is about mastery, responsibility and impact.

    The Power of Discipline is one of the most vital forces behind any form of success whether living the christian life or aspiring to achieve greatly. While motivation may light the fire, discipline keeps it burning long after the initial spark fades. The Apostle Paul says in Acts 24:16 that he always disciplines himself in order to have a clear conscience, void of offense towards God and toward men. In his letter to Timothy (2 Timothy 1:7) Paul admonished him that God has not given him the spirit of fear and timidity but of Love, Power and Self-Discipline. Self-Disciple is not just will power, it is the Gift of the Holy Spirit. God empowers us to live with strength, love and control over our actions and desires. In order to achieve anything that’s worthwhile or carry substance and or exercise authority, one must practise self-discipline.

    Discipline creates consistency. It creates the path to keep you moving forward even when you don’t feel like it. Discipline builds Self-Respect. Often times we do not fulfill the promises we made to ourselves. However everytime we do what we promised, even in difficult situations, we are reassuring ourselves that we matter and deserves honor and respect. By training oneself to resist distractions, you develop the ability to concentrate on what truly matters. Honoring and respecting self lead to better decisions, less procrastination and more meaningful progress. Each time you follow through on a promise to self, you build self-trust. This boosts your confidence and belief that you can overcome challenges. Proverbs 25:28 tells us that a man without self-discipline is like a city broken into and left without walls. Without discipline, we are vulnerable and open to emotional , spiritual and moral collapse.

    As we navigate this life, I encourage us to be disciplined in our pursuit for greatness. Be clear about our goals; break down tasks in smaller workable ones; develop set routines and stick to them; avoid distractions and temptations; track your progress and celebrate the small wins. It’s important to be yielded to the Holy Spirit so that He can guide and direct the decisions we make and the directions we take (Psalm 32:8 – ‘I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye.’)

    More Grace.

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