Kindness is referred to as the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate.
Today, my friend and i had a conversation about the power of kindness within a relationship. We discussed the fact that many couples are not friendly towards each other. Some dont even like each other. Let alone be considerate to each other’s feelings, needs or wants. We concluded our discussion on this very salient point that, one of the most important ingredients in relationships, is kindness. Proverbs 11:17 tells us that those who are kind benefit themselves but the cruel bring ruin on themselves. Its clear here that when you are kind, it opens the doors for you to have a great return. Matthew 5:7 informs us that Blessed are the merciful for they shall inherit the earth. Mercy/kindness is an attribute of Gods Divine nature. He is rich in mercy. Kindness moves us to act on behalf of one who is not deserving. We are guaranteed the possession of the earth ( kindness has benefits).
Kindness is not given only in pleasant situations but also when one is faced with troubled realities and experience mean acts. It has no favorites but is extended as the needs arise. It’s selfless and considerate. It doesn’t always look after itself but is always looking a way to serve. Within our relationships, it’s important to search for ways to serve, instead of focusing on being served. Ephesians 4:32 says, Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you.
Kindness shows up when punishment should be imputed. Its an investment in our own wellbeing. Its never too late to be kind, polite and a loving human being. We all fall short therefore as we attain knowledge and understanding, it must be offered freely. Lets not wait on the good works of others but rather allow kindness to flow based on its necessity. No act of kindness, no matter how small is ever wasted. Aesop. Colossians 3:12 states Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness and patience.
I charge us, today, to put on kindness and extend it to our neighbor, not because they are showing us that they deserve it but because we know it must be given generously. Remember it has its own reward. The more you sow this seed of kindness, it will grow and we will reap the rich harvest. Let kindness be on your tongue (Proverb 31:26). Couples, do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.
Should you be struggling with kindness, may i suggest that you ask the Holy Spirit for help. Ask Him to help you become more like Him so that you can be a conduit for kindness. Ask Him to help you to demonstrate His mighty power through you that you can exercise love and kindness to your neighbor and yourself.
More Grace.
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